When
I gave birth to my first child unassisted in 1978, I assumed I was one of the
few women in the Western world who had actually chosen to give birth
this way. In fact, fourteen years would pass before I would realize that the
unassisted childbirth movement was alive and well in this country and had been
since the 1950's.
From
author Marilyn Moran I learned of the existence of The League of Liberated
Women, a group of women in the 50's and 60's who chose to give birth at home
without medical assistance. Its founder, Patricia Carter, author of the book
Come Gently Sweet Lucina, was quite the character.
Unlike Marilyn, who was a believer in "husband/wife childbirth," Pat preferred
to give birth completely alone. After downing a few whisky highballs, she would
retire to her bedroom, shut the door, and catch her baby. As I would later
learn from reading her book, several unhappy hospital experiences - including
one in which a nurse accidentally gave Pat another woman's baby - led her to
decide that unassisted birth was the safest and most satisfying choice for the
modern-day woman.
Unfortunately,
Pat died before I had the chance to meet her. However, in the past few years
I've been able to locate several of her friends and family members who were
kind enough to send me newspaper clippings about Pat's births. I've taken the
liberty of typing them up so that Pat's legacy will not be lost. I hope you
will find them as interesting as I have.
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Mother
of 7 Gets Ready to Bear her 8th Alone
TITUSVILLE,
Fla., 1955 (AP) - Mrs. Ellerbe W. Carter expects her eighth baby in April. As
usual, she plans to deliver it herself.
The
dark-haired, blue-eyed woman, now past 40, has brought five of her children
into the world unattended. Her oldest child is 17. Her youngest is two.
Briefly,
Mrs. Carter's system consists of taking "a few whisky highballs" to relax and
have her baby. Then she resumes her housework. Mrs. Carter says she enjoys "the
rapture of childbirth as nature intended it." She added: "There is no agony, no
screaming pain. There is about a half a minute of acute discomfort, but not
nearly as bad as having a tooth pulled."
Her
husband, 71, a retired Army general, is a member of the City Council and
president of the Titusville Lions Club. He also owns a realty company.
Mrs.
Carter read many books on natural childbirth before attempting to deliver her
own babies and she "blesses" their doctor authors.
When
Mrs. Carter is aware that the birth of a child is due, she mixes a few whisky
highballs and goes into a bedroom alone to relax and wait. When the child is
born she gets up instantly, ties the cord, bathes the baby, then shows the
newcomer to its brothers and sisters and her husband.
After
the baby has been properly welcomed by the family, Mrs. Carter gets breakfast
or whatever meal is due, and goes about her other daily household chores as
usual.
She
writes poetry, conducts a free public library at her home, and is a member of
several women's clubs. Mrs. Carter is a vegetarian. She attributes her energy
and good health to her meatless diet.
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Halts
Chores for Hour, Gives Birth to Child Unaided
TITUSVILLE,
Fla., May 19, 1955 (AP) - Mrs. Ellerbe W. Carter, Sr., put aside her household
chores for an hour today while she gave birth to a daughter, her sixth child
born without a doctor in attendance.
She
got up immediately to tie the umbilical cord and bathe and dress the baby. When
the child was asleep she went into the living room to dust furniture.
Mrs.
Ellerbe, who is in her 40s, called her 71-year-old husband, Gen. Ellerbe
Carter, Sr., formerly of Louisville, Ky., and asked him to telephone a friend,
Mary Lou Culbertson, a writer for the Daytona Beach News-Journal.
The general remained in his real estate office.
Mary
Lou hurried to the home and arrived a moment after the birth. The only other
person there was Ruthie Lee, a housemaid, who became so excited she was given
the afternoon off.
Mrs.
Carter was "absolutely beautiful" and calm as she tied the umbilical cord and
washed and dressed her newborn, blue-eyed daughter, said Mary Lou. "She took a
drink of whisky just before the birth, but for relaxation which she believes
necessary for natural birth," said the news writer. "When I left her home she
was dusting a piano, the baby asleep in its crib."
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Unassisted
Mother Delivers 7th Baby
TITUSVILLE,
Fla., Aug. 20, 1956 (UP) - Mrs. Ellerbe W. Carter sipped several highballs,
then delivered her seventh child unassisted at 1:20 this morning.
At
9 a.m. she was back at work in her husband's real estate office with her
6-pound son at her side.
The
birth took place while her three-year-old son and infant daughter slept in a
bed a few feet away.
"It's
the way nature intended babies to be born," explained Mrs. Carter, an
attractive housewife in her early 40's. "And it's a wonderful experience."
The
slim, brown-haired woman is a strong believer in natural childbirth and has
written several articles on it.
"It's
easy if you don't let yourself gain too much weight," she said, "and the whisky
helps you relax."
Mrs.
Carter, who normally weighs 102 pounds, said she allows herself to gain only
five pounds in pregnancy.
Her
husband, a 72-year-old retired Army general from Louisville, Ky., beamed
proudly after being awakened and told the news.
"You
know, it's quite an unusual thing for a man my age to be a father," he said.
Carter is husky, gray-haired and very active.
This
was the ninth child for the couple. The first two were born in the hospital and
the rest Mrs. Carter had unassisted. Mrs. Carter said she would name the baby
William Douglas. She said she took the infant to the office this morning
because "it's better to have him with me so I can give him better care.
Besides, if I left him at home, the other kids would probably maul him."
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(Note
from Laura: This next passage was actually written by Pat. It appeared in her
unassisted birth newsletter, The Wellborn Wag, in 1961.)
Delightfully
emancipated is Mrs. Dean Auginbaugh, 17, of South Bend, Indiana. According to
an Associated Press report, this teen-aged mother read twenty books on
parturition before deciding that she and her child would have a better chance
of avoiding suffering and mutilation in her own home, unhandicapped by
disturbing attendants and dystocia producing procedures of present-day
perverted professional practice.
In
an article under by-line of Effie Alley in the Chicago American,
June 11, the reporter states that the youthful parents were roundly condemned
by Chicago's leading obstetricians. The doctors quoted in the account spoke
learnedly of unattended birth. Curious point, in as much as they were all male.
Pity
they have no way of knowing the difference between the tranquil, private birth
and the disturbed public birth. Unless surgery be indicated, a physician is as
unnecessary in childbirth as he would be on the honeymoon. Orchids to Kay and
Dean Auginbaugh!
Click
here to read more newspaper accounts of unassisted births
in the 1950's.
Click
here to read an unassisted birth story
that was published in Child and Family Digest in 1954.
Click
here to read newspaper accounts of unassisted births
in the 1960's.